Mulatto actress cum model, Carol Ekanem, is an actress to reckon with
in Nollywood. She is not only bold and beautiful but also downright
outspoken in her views in life.
Single but not searching, Carol,
who made her debut on the set of “Deadly Care” a couple of years back,
speaks glowingly about her romance with wave- making musician, Tu face
Idibia and other men who have been in and out of her life, especially
her latest heartthrob.
Background
The fledging actress who has
her mother as her role model said she decided to take her mother’s
family name, Ekanem, as her stage name because of her love and respect
for her mother.
“ My mother is from Akwa Ibom and my father is
from Scotland, Ekanem is my mother’s family name. I decided to use
Ekanem as my stage name because of the love and respect I have for my
mother. I come from a Christian and disciplined home and a royal family
at the same time. I have two younger brothers and I am the only girl in
my family, I was born on June 26 1980s and I am presently in my third
year in University of Calabar, studying Environmental Protection
Management and Geography and Regional Planning”.
Acting
Like
many of her colleagues, Carol developed interest in acting at a very
tender age. “ I discovered that I love acting while in primary school. I
was a member of the cultural troupe in my school and I did very well in
acting”. She said her love for acting made her to seek out Rita Dominic
who introduced her to Chico Ejiro. “ Like I always say, you have to try
in life if you want to get somewhere. I tried getting to Rita Dominic
and she introduced me to Chico Ejiro whom I started my first movie,
“Deadly Care” with. I played a major role in the movie and that was in
March 2004. I acted alongside UK and Jim Iyke and it was great”.
I was never harassed
When
asked if she has ever been harassed in the movie industry, Carol puts
on a bewitching smilebefore finally saying no and attributes her success
to God’s work.“ Harassed? Me? No, I was never harassed by anybody. No
producer, director or actor has ever harassed me. It was God, everything
has to do with God and the way I carried myself. Funny enough, I went
late for the audition, yes, I could remember that day vividly. When I
was called for the audition, I told them I will come the next day. By
the time I got there, they told me that they have finished the audition
and I said okay. But before I left, Chico asked me read some lines. He
auditioned me immediately and I was scared because there were many
people there.
But before I knew it, they just gave me a script and
asked me to go through it and said that is your character. You are
playing a lead role with Jim Iyke and I could not believe it. I was
really shocked because when I entered at first for the audition, I’ve
lost hope of getting the role because I came late. But at the end of it
all, to God be the glory, I started my first movie and I am doing well
till date”.
Relationship
The fast rising actress is ready to
tell anybody that cares to listen how much she loves her Romeo whom she
described as wonderful and God fearing. “ My love life is wonderful, I
have a boyfriend, he is wonderful but I will not tell you who he is
because he knows himself. I love him so much and he loves me too. He
respects and adores me, I am enjoying my love life”. Stops and laugh
continuing, she said, “ the first time I fell in love was good but it
was not special but it was something I have learned from. But right now,
I am in love with a man and when he said so we would walk down the
aisle. Right now, I don’t want to rush him for anything, I am still
taking my time. He has proposed to me but I don’t want to rush him all
the same.
You know, I don’t want to get married and get divorce at
the same time, I am not into that. So, I want to be very sure of what I
am doing. Right now, what I am considering is that we should have a
very strong faith in God, which is the first thing because if we have
that every other thing shall follow. You know my ideal man is a God
fearing man that sees me for who I am and not because I am an actress or
beautiful. A guy that can tolerate, listen and very hard working. In
fact”, she moverss closer to you and said in a whisper “ I ‘ve found it
all in my boyfriend”.
My affair with Tu Face Idibia
The
stunning actress, whose sizzling romance with award-winning musician, Tu
Face made front page in many soft sell magazines finally opens up on
her affairs with the Musician. She described Tu Face as a very good
friend of hers while maintaining that they are still good friends. “ Tu
Face I and are still very much friends, I am happy that he is who he is
and I know that he is happy that I am who I am today.
I don’t have
anything against him. Many people believe that something went wrong in
the affair but I am telling you now that nothing went wrong, it is not
as if we call our friendship off. Yes, we decided to part but not as if
we just said it’s over but we just found out that it was over and that
was all. Nothing went wrong and we are still very good friends today and
I think I like it like that”.
Heartbroken
“Yes, I ve been
heart-broken by someone but I guess every lady in this world has been
heartbroken before. I know I have been heartbroken but I can’t remember
the time”. When asked if she has broken a man’s heart before, Carol
said: “I don’t know unless you have to interview my ex-boyfriends.
Laughs, Tu Face did not break my heart and I did not break his heart.
But I think you are going too deep into my private life and I don’t want
to talk about that. If anybody wants to know so much about me, I think
we should all come together and talk about it”.
I am not a snub
The
soft-spoken actress said she does not owe anybody apology for the way
she chooses to leave her life. “People say I am a snub, well, I am sorry
I was not born to talk to everybody in this world, neither was I born
to flash teeth at everybody in the world. There is time for everything,
if people think I am a snub, fine, I don’t have to apologize to anybody,
I really don’t have to”.
My style
“To me style means
looking good, being presentable and being decent. I love African fabrics
a lot and I love to wear them. Again, my style also depends on the
occasion, I dress as the occasion demands”.
Embarrassing moments
Carol
goes philosophical when asked to recount embarrassing moments in her
thriving career. “ I don’t think I have had any embarrassing period in
my life, everyday I’ve learnt a lesson. If there is no disappointments
and no lessons I don’t think I will be a human being and I don’t think I
will be alive. So I am very happy for every disappointments and lessons
I ve learnt everyday and there is actually no embarrassing moments”.